Thursday, 4 April 2013

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Curiosity Killed the Ditz #8: Teasing Loved Ones

Resident @DitzwitDtits brings you another WHY Question. This time, Its about Teasing the ones you Love. Take a Look and show her some love with a Tweet or a comment.



Curiosity Killed the Ditz: Teasing Loved Ones




Why; the three little words that haunt my existence. From the moment I could speak I always wanted to know why. Now as an adult I am finding less and less people that want to answer my questions. I have been called nosy or weird, and angered many a person, with just those 3 letters. This is my story, quest you could call it, to try and find answers to my Whys.

WHY DO WE TEASE THE ONES WE LOVE?


To start this one off, I need a disclaimer. The teasing discussed about in this blog is the kind that comes from a loving heart. I do not condone any teasing that is designed to hurt or causes hurt to another person. Teasing can be very dangerous so please use with caution and compassion.

That being said, a little anecdote from my life:

Me: I love you baby. (blows kiss)
BF: Ewwwww
Me: Ewwwww?
BF: Yup, you are a butt head and that makes your kisses farts. I think you may need to go poop.
Me: What? (and yes, fall into a fit of giggles because he said fart and poop, sigh so juvenile)

So why do we tease our loved ones? Well, to make them laugh, as show above. There is more though. I have also had teasing used on me to lighten a very hurtful situation.

Me: Suzy just said I am obese. I can't believe she said that to me (bawling on my BF sholder)
BF: Well, you did eat 2 M&Ms today
Me: (slight laugh & punch to his arm) Knock it off, this is serious
BF: I know, you should have stopped at 1 M&M, I was getting worried
Me: (Drying tears) You're such a jerk (openly smiling and starting to giggle)

Ok, so we tease to cause laughter, and we tease to ease a tough situation, why else do we tease? Well, to flirt of course.

Me: mmmm, what do we have here...
BF: what?
Me: I think that shirt is a little tight...
BF: No its not..
Me: come here.. I think I need to get a closer look
BF: Eeeekkkkk...as I dive after him and get ready to molest the hell out of him.

Oh, So much fun. I love to tease and if I tease you know that it is only because I care to make you smile. If someone teases me, I take it as the highest compliment. So to wrap this up, Why do we tease the ones we love? Because we love them and want to see that wonderful smile. :)


Keep questioning.

Love,

DD

Twitter: @DitzWitDTits

1 comments:

  1. Very light and fluffy, as promised. We all tease, most often than not out humor. If I tease, it's to ease a tense situation or just to make you laugh.
    I am playful, but I will tease just to give you a hard time. Only those that know my tendencies know how and why I tease. I love this question of why.

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